Do you mean they love life so much they don’t want to leave the Earth? S: It is either that case, or someone here on Earth is tying them so hard that they can’t leave. Every time you grieve for someone who is gone, you tie that person a little closer to being earthbound. Grief has its place, but excessive grieving is bad for both the person who is doing the grieving, and the one they are grieving about. There is no reason to grieve for that person. Most of them are very happy in what they have seen on this side.

