Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End

by Atul Gawande

Taking care of a debilitated, elderly person in our medicalized era is an overwhelming combination of the technological and the custodial. Lou was on numerous medications, which had to be tracked and sorted and refilled. He had a small platoon of specialists he had to visit—at times, nearly weekly—and they were forever scheduling laboratory tests, imaging studies, and visits to other specialists. He had an electronic alert system for falls, which had to be tested monthly. And there was almost no help for Shelley. The burdens for today’s caregiver have actually increased from what they would have been a century ago. Shelley had become a round-the-clock concierge/chauffeur/schedule manager/medication-and-technology troubleshooter, in addition to cook/maid/attendant, not to mention income earner.