Do not get involved with someone expecting them to change. The only way they’ll change is to get worse. If you love someone, love them exactly as they are. Do not expect your love to change them. It won’t. You waiting and watching for them to change will only make them feel guilty. And as always, instead of accepting the guilt they will turn it around and for some reason you will be to blame. When you make people feel guilty they want to get you out of their life so they can stop feeling guilty. It’s as simple as that.
