I never want anyone to feel worse about themselves after I leave than they did before I arrived. I very recently read in another context, “No gentleman ever makes another person feel worse about themselves.” That is the same thought and it is my number one rule in life. I never want to damage anyone’s self-esteem. I may not be here to make you feel much better about yourself but I am certain that I am not here to make you feel worse. Even if you would really like me to.