Does this person have wisdom I find attractive? Has she done something that shows me she is likely, when faced with a difficult decision, to choose the path of greatest courage? Has she done something that shows me that, when faced by a personal fear or insecurity, she is dedicated to dealing with it with grace, and to investing in the effort it takes to confront, understand and grow beyond it? Does she show intellectual curiosity, intellectual rigor and intellectual growth? Has she dealt with past relationships, including relationships that have failed, with dignity and compassion? Is she a
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