What are my expectations of my metamours? Do I have to know my metamours? Do I expect to have close relationships with them? Do my expectations allow space for metamours who might have different expectations? How do I communicate my expectations? How and when do I want to meet my metamours? Do I give my partner space to conduct his relationship with my other partner, without trying to take sides in conflicts or carry messages between them? What will I do if I don't get along well with a partner's partner? What do I do if one of my partners doesn't get along well with another of my partners?
