Do they always appear at events together, or do they sometimes attend separately? If one is invited, do both always attend? When they are at events together, do they mingle separately or are they always side by side? Do all their pictures on social media show them together, or do they appear with a variety of friends and family members? Do they have separate close friendships, or are all their friends shared? If they are closeted about polyamory, are they closeted because of genuine risk one of them faces (for instance, a custody dispute or a teaching job) or because they do not want to lose
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