Asking the following questions of a potential partner can help you figure out whether your values and approaches will mesh well in a relationship: How do you feel about polyamory? Do you have experience with poly relationships, and what does that look like for you? What are your goals in a poly relationship? What restrictions, if any, do you (or your partners) put on other partners? Will I be expected to have a particular kind of relationship with your other partners? What does polyamory mean to you? Do you have any expectations about the role I will be expected to play in your life?
