To be fair, that was the first time I’d demanded an answer from him. It was the first time I didn’t let him off the hook when he said he liked how things were between us and didn’t want to change it. Maybe I was equally to blame for allowing him to lead me on.
You were definitely to blame for not telling the man that you wanted to get married and if that wasn't happening you were out. Saying "I'd like a family someday" is not the same as "I want to marry you and start a family immediately"

