The One That Got Away

by Mike Gayle

the fact that I tried to change you. And before you say it, I know it’s a massive contradiction. Where’s the logic in trying to change someone you think is perfect? But ultimately, isn’t that what we all are? A seething mass of chaotic contradictions masquerading as rational human beings? You’re perfect, but I wish you talked more about your feelings.

What is it about people getting all philosophical, instead of just getting on with the basics of being happy?

You see, that’s the problem with “what ifs”, they work both ways, so if you think about it, they sort of cancel each other out. And all that’s left, all that matters, are the choices we make, choices that don’t come with a single assurance that they’re not going to end in disaster. Is there a chance that things might not work? Absolutely. But is there a chance they might? Most definitely.

life doesn’t come with any guarantees, all you get – all any of us get – is what we get. So, in the end, all you can do is put your best foot forward, and keep doing that ’til the day you die.’