Do You Understand? (Understood Book 2)

by Mel Dau

“Offense is an event. Offended is a decision.”

PTSD can affect your behavior, thoughts, and decisions.

When you are in a life-or-death situation where the lives of others are dependent upon your ability to make sound decisions, you don’t want your condition to affect that.”

My father always told me as a man it was our responsibility to continuously study our women from their likes, dislikes, moods, fears, goals, motivations, ambitions, spirituality, and anything else that was important to them. If the woman that you were with was who was meant for you, she would do the same. The accomplishment of those things could look different, and that was fine. Different methods could yield the same

“He makes me feel like I can do anything. He makes me want to be the best me, but not for him. I want to be the best for me. Just being around him makes me want to be better. Does that make sense?”

When you’re with the right person, they bring out the best in you,”