But it makes feelings more important than boundaries. It’s a very late concept, you know . . . Came into English about 1922 actually. At first I didn’t pay too much attention to it, but then I began to realize that by getting everyone to substitute empathy for compassion—feeling in supposedly being better than feeling with—I saw that I could generally frustrate the Creator’s plan for an evolving response to challenge because everyone would stay focused on one another instead of themselves.6
