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This is a story about me falling in love with myself.
The only sad thing about getting coffee on my shirt is that I won’t be able to drink it now.
Whatever happened to gentle pleasantries? I guess there are none when you’re paying by the hour.
Nerds Clusters are my jam.
You have no idea what you’re doing when you have a stick in your hand. Trust me.” Hey!
“But that doesn’t mean I’m not good at it,” he adds. “Not about quantity, it’s about quality.” “Same, Wilder. Same.”
“When we get caught up in ourselves and become complacent with our everyday life, we tend to forget how our choices can affect our partner.”
“Is it weird that your suggestion just made my nipples hard?” “Yes.” “Fair.”
“That’s too much chewing. Ice cream should be sucked on, not chewed.” “Reasoning you could use on other things you put in your mouth,” I say, causing her eyes to widen, which makes me smile.
“First of all, your dick doesn’t have taste buds;
“He reminds me to not be so serious all the time, that there is more to life than just the day-to-day. That it’s okay to break routine. To let loose. To be the person that maybe I hold back from being.”
I like knowing I can be of value to someone, more than just a bank account. I like knowing that I can offer my humor, my touch, my mind…my soul. I like knowing that I’m helpful, that I can bring joy. That’s very much my love language.
“Even Mother Nature represses women. How depressing.”
Last night, when we solved our differences, all I could think about was how easy that was. How simply honest conversation resolved animosity. There was no holding grudges. We just…continued on. It was so healthy that I almost didn’t know what to do with it. I appreciated it.
felt that kiss all the way to my freaking loins, Denise. My loins!” “Dear God,” she whispers. “Not the loins.” “The loins!” I shout, and then realize the receptionist is looking at me.
“Don’t,” I say. “Don’t get lost in that head of yours. Stay present with me.” I tip her chin up. “Stay here…with me.”
“Holding information out of fear is the biggest form of miscommunication, but it’s also the most common. Every relationship, no matter how excellent you are at talking to your partner, experiences a form of miscommunication. It’s human nature. We become guarded, we don’t want to get hurt, we’re unsure of how the other person is going to respond, so we hold our cards close to our chest. We don’t tell the entire truth, which always hurts the relationship in the long run.
“When it comes to your mental health, yeah, there’s always a good time to be selfish.
it’s okay to say no to uncertainty.
“After you had sex with Matt, was there something you craved? Something you might have wanted?” An orgasm?

