Self-Obsession It should make sense now when we say that one way of describing the problem of addiction is to say that the addict is simply way too in tune with his or her own existence. Addicts are often described as being touchy or hypersensitive. It’s true. Hence, the insatiable urge to numb themselves into unconsciousness. Long gone are the days when they were actually enjoying their use. They are actually looking for the self-obliteration their use brings on.