The answer lies in the pre-Oedipal stage when the infant boy develops conflicting feelings towards his mother’s body, which he sees as the source of pleasure and pain. The grown-up man wants to avoid this dependence on the female body by controlling it. For her part, the girl deals with the power of the mother within her by seeking to be controlled by men. This results in a mis-shapen set of six gender arrangements which determine all human relations.
