“In order to truly be polyamorous, you’re going to have to go through the path of uncomfortability. Just know that you’re going to experience jealousy, and know that it’s about you, not her. So allow yourself to be vulnerable. Don’t be afraid to show your feelings and needs, and work through them. In the end, you’ll find that true love is wanting your partner to have whatever she wants—whether or not you approve of it.”