the communication boundary. She holds up a poster board reading: When I saw/heard ____________. The story I told myself about that was ____________. And I feel ____________. So I would like to request that ____________. Charles tries it: “When I heard you say that ‘we’re not monogamous by design,’ the story I told myself about that was that it’s not true for me. I’m here to get better. And I feel angry. So I would like to request that in the future, you use I to refer to yourself instead of we.”
