In a sense, this entire awakening or realization, this entire “repentance” is summed up in this passage. It is the need to “never go back” to seeing ourselves only as a “poor me victim in a bad situation,” but to ask ourselves, What do I need to learn from this, and how can this situation be used to make me more “complete,” so I am not lacking in anything? How can I use it to be wiser and not allow people to do this again, or not repeat the mistakes that are causing this pattern?

