It’s more important to do what you think is right than to focus on what you’ve been doing wrong; Honesty starts with the promises you keep to yourself—and created a spreadsheet of things she endorses vs. disavows. Wearing shades of purple, taking cold showers, owning a pet, and orgasming at least twice a week (with or without a partner) are on the recommend list. Reality television, restrictive diets, jetted baths, and chewing gum are renounced.
