Church people are urged to trust only God, and according to the lying-heart narrative, he wants whatever the opposite of our desires suggests. Since God’s feelings about any given thing are a real damn mystery, the shortcut is to go inward, feel around for any impulse, then assume he wants the opposite. If it feels right, it is wrong. If it feels bad, it is probably godly. If you experience intense cognitive dissonance, let your mind suffer.

