Heroic Path: In Search of the Masculine Heart

by John Sowers

When it happens, we are not fully aware of our transformation. Something feels different, but our change is usually more noticeable to others. We walk without fear, with purpose and intention. Our brow is creased and our eyes are narrowed as we prowl through life. Others are uncomfortable by our wildness, by our pulsing and dangerous courage. When we face the bear, we take something from him. Or rather, he offers it to us with a glance. At home, people no longer take advantage of us. We no longer avoid eye contact, lowering ourselves beneath others. We lift our head, fix our gaze, and straighten our shoulders. The transformed man no longer walks in shame or fear. When the trials come, we do not submit to them, or accept them as impending defeat. We do not roll over. We now face our boss or our employees or the person who wishes to encroach on us with equal courage; we no longer shy away from the heat of conflict. We are changed. After our confrontation and transformation, we return to the village.