In the mixed up modern world, it’s reasonable to expect you to change the tire or fix the leaky toilet, but it’s unreasonable to expect her to make lunch while you’re doing it. It’s reasonable to expect you to mow the lawn, but unreasonable to expect her to sew the button on your jacket. It’s reasonable when somebody is moving that you will volunteer and move the heavy stuff. It’s unreasonable to expect the women to provide drinks and food. (In fact, you’ll probably have to spring for carry out.) Be unreasonable.
