The people who feel most lost have neither of those. They don’t have the picture or the plan. They look in the mirror and they wonder, “How the hell did I get here?” but they don’t know. They’ve made so many decisions and taken so many actions that have landed them in this place, and yet they have no idea what any of them were. They’ll even argue with you: “I hate this, why would I have chosen it?” Except no one forced that ring on their finger or put that second cheeseburger in their hands. No one made them take that dead-end job. No one made them skip class, or miss workouts, or stop going
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