I worried that this photo could become a banner for “women doing it all” or some kind of proof point that women should never complain about how much they have on their plate, because, look, here’s a woman running a country and being a mother. Sure, women can do it all; they are mothers, workers, caregivers, change makers, advocates, counselors, cheerleaders, often doing these things with little support. But that doesn’t mean they should.

