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‘You have to have something on the line, for it to be called character.’ ”
People just couldn’t see the ways they were drawn to exactly who they feared—or hoped—they might be.
Because the world had decided that to be soft was to be weak, even though in Joan’s experience being soft and flexible was always more durable than being hard and brittle. Admitting you were afraid always took more guts than pretending you weren’t. Being willing to make a mistake got you further than never trying. The world had decided that to be fallible was weak. But we are all fallible. The strong ones are the ones who accept it.
Bravery, Joan suspected, is almost always a lie. Courage is all we have.
If I caught fire, Lydia would consider whether she could use me to warm her hands before deciding to put the flames out.”
She can’t understand how she’s going to get past this moment.
she will physically survive it. But she is not sure, when it is all over, if she will ever come back to herself.
nothing was ever in balance. That she could not have toddler Frances and fifth-grade Frances at the same time. She could not meet adult Frances and have a moment to hold baby Frances all at once. You could not have a little of everything you wanted.
But to love Frances was to be always saying goodbye to the girl Frances used to be and falling in love again with the girl Frances was becoming.