Knowing and accepting her temperament will enable you to offer her support while at the same time nurturing her ability to gradually develop her courage and reach out to others. With your attunement and understanding, she can become more secure. Feeling supported by you, she can brave the world with more strength and willingness to try new things. Instead of trying to fix, think of trying to join. Be sure to keep an open mind as you try to understand your children’s perspectives.