Resonance occurs when we align our states, our primary emotions, through the sharing of nonverbal signals. Even when we are physically separated from the other person, we can continue to feel the reverberations of that resonant connection. This sensory experience of another person becomes a part of our “memory of the other” such that the other person becomes a part of us. When relationships include resonance, there can be a tremendously invigorating sense of joining. This joining is not just in the moment: we continue to feel the connection to the other through the resonance of the
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