“We are going to live together in our house. That’s what it is for the duration of our marriage, whether it’s ten weeks or ten years. Ours. So we’re going inside, and you’re picking something that isn’t for the guestroom. I don’t care if it’s a lamp. I don’t care if it’s a brand-new couch. New dining room table? Fine. But it has to be something you like, something that gives you a little bit of happiness. Something that feels like home to you. Got it?”