The Conditions of Will

by Jessa Hastings

Because—honestly—neither party is great these days, and when you personalize something to the extent many people do in politics, any time anyone questions something the party does, it can feel like they’re questioning you, and that’s just plain unhealthy.

It’s a funny part of growing up, actually… Accepting that things that are better for you, healthier—they can still be painful. That the worst, most shameful day of my life to date would in turn become the most defining.

And I think to myself, wouldn’t it be so lovely if we viewed ourselves through the same lens as the people who love us?