Our values are determined by the environment we grow up in; and we learn to judge other people based on a standard that’s set for us by the first person we come in contact with—which in most cases is our mother. So, for example, a person who has been raised by a cruel mother might find another person—let’s call him A—might find A to be a kind person; but another person who was raised by a very kind mother might find A to be cruel.
