The core of my being is deeper than the symptoms of whom I am attracted to. The core of my identity is that I’m a sinner redeemed by Christ. I know my most important identity is Child of God. But I would like to be able to resolve this because I appreciate having an identity. I’d like to be able to say, ‘This is my sexuality,’ just like I say I am Christian, an engineer, and a Chinese-American. It does feel innate. This isn’t something I can just switch off. So I have to preach the Gospel to myself: God sees me as so much more than my sexuality,”