say, ‘Hello! I’m home,’ to your house when you return. If you forget when you walk in the door, then later, when you remember, say, ‘Thank you for giving me shelter.’ If you feel shy or embarrassed to say these things out loud, it is fine to say them silently in your mind. If you do this repeatedly, you will start to feel your house respond when you come home. You will sense its pleasure passing through like a gentle breeze.