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people aren’t supposed to be happy, they’re only supposed to want to be happy, because how otherwise are you supposed to be able to sell things to them?
He doesn’t want enemies, but he also doesn’t want to risk making the only thing that’s worse than that: friends.
Being smart is the worst thing one can be in modern society. All it ever means is more work.
Because a funny thing about rule-loving people is that to them it seems more important to impose punishment than it is to actually solve problems, and a funny thing about rule-breaking people is that they seem to find breaking rules a lot easier to do if someone else has broken them first.
This is when Lucas does something very, very stupid: he tries to be constructive and solve the problem.
because the truth about problems is that the problem itself is never actually the problem. It’s always the people involved who are the problem.
“I’m . . . no expert. But I think most people who want to be happy try to add things to their lives. But really what maybe they should be doing is taking something away.”
“How do you put dishes in a dishwasher . . . wrong?” Lucas asks. “Isn’t that obvious?” both women ask in unison.
“I miss making up. I don’t miss the fights, I don’t miss nagging and arguing and getting upset about the ways in which we’re so different, but I miss . . . making up. It’s like we’re choosing each other all over again when that happens.”
Don’t look on the internet for someone who is exactly like you. Look for someone who isn’t. Love is not to never fight. Love is always making up.
Love isn’t powerful enough. But spite? Spite can change the world.
happy. It’s not as hard as one might think to become, the hard part is just to keep being it. It’s hard because it’s so easy to get in your head that if you are to be happy, you have to be happy exactly all of the time. And who in the world has the energy for that? Happiness can be exhausting. Honestly, it’s most often enough to just not be the opposite.
the doctors and nurses understand very well that all the modern pills and treatments are surely great, but sometimes what people really need most of all is a prescription for a break.
