We are hardwired to think that everything that happens to us is significant and meaningful. We have a dream that a friend is going to break her arm, and the next day we find out that she sprained her ankle. Wow! Cosmic! Clairvoyant? The physicist Richard Feynman used to like to go up to people and say: “You won’t believe what happened to me today! You just won’t believe it!” And when they would inquire what happened, he would say, “Absolutely nothing!” By this he was suggesting that when something like the dream I described above happens, people ascribe significance to it. But they forget the
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