never considered trying BDSM. I hoped he wouldn’t be too extreme. I could handle a blindfold and some handcuffs, but I wasn’t ready for him to alligator clamp my nipples to a car battery. I started making a mental list of my hard limits as I climbed the stairs. No anal beads. No butt stuff at all, actually. Except light spanking. That would be fine. And handcuffs could be fun…