I'll Have What She's Having

by Chelsea Handler

Don’t be a product of your environment, Chelsea. Make your environment be a product of you.”

Happiness is an attitude. I choose it. Even when it doesn’t choose me. I’ll chase it around all day long until it gathers me back up in its good graces.

The people who don’t get you are not your problem. Sitting around and thinking of all the people who don’t love you or don’t want to hang out with you diminishes your own light.

This is the most important love story we have: the one with ourselves.

There will be many surprises in how people react to your own personal transformation and betterment.

When people tell you they are not happy for you or that they’re not on your side, be grateful to have that knowledge.

Not everyone is meant to be in your life forever. Some people are only here to get you from one chapter to the next, and sometimes you are the person helping someone get from one chapter to the next. Be grateful for the experience and be graceful when it’s over.

The loss of one thing means gaining another.