“But I do try to avoid language and conversations on here that place value or judgment on genital sizes and shapes, if you know what I mean. Lilith has really drawn my attention to how common that ends up being when discussing sex and intimacy and just like, gender in general, and I’m trying to be more aware of it. I don’t ever want to make a listener feel, you know, badly for something I flippantly say about dick size or vulva types or whatever. I’m, uh, yeah, just trying to be more intentional about harm avoidance.
