“Yes…uh…no. I don’t know. I just…something really bothered me about that. Seeing you with them. And I know what you’re going to say—it’s your job, and I get that. But why do you just let them use you like that? You’re so much better than an accessory in other people’s relationships. Why…do you always focus on everyone else and not yourself?” The moment the words leave my mouth, I hear them.