“Have you met any couples with mismatched kinks before?” I ask after I’ve taken my sip. “Oh, tons,” she replies. “My best friend and his wife, actually. She loves impact play, and he doesn’t like bringing her pain, no matter how much she wants him to.” “So what do they do?” I ask. This makes her smile. “They bring in reinforcements.” By the wicked smirk she’s wearing, I assume she is the reinforcement.