Even if there were no intention to repair relations on his side, I would not mind in the least. The issue was whether or not I would resolve to do it, and I was always holding the interpersonal relationship cards.
It is true that forgiveness requires that you do the work and not be hung up on their action. However this seems like forgetting, which isnt useful imo. Recall that they hit you ,you didn't like it, they may not be changed and you may not enter into relationship, but you will forgive recognizing I have done so, and move forward responsible for your own adult strategies.
