A Good Girl's Guide to Dominance
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Started reading April 25, 2025
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I've been all about being honest with myself, and the truth is that I’m not a vanilla kind of girl.
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the world is full of men who think they are Dominant … and they have absolutely no clue what the fuck they’re doing.
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when I think of the word Dom, it comes with an image in my mind. I see someone who is put together. Someone
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who takes care of themselves—because if you can’t take care of yourself, how could you possibly take care of a submissive? I see someone who is neat and orderly, someone calm and composed, someone who doesn't get flustered when the temperature rises. I see strength, discipline, and structure. I see a Dominant.
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Just because I am a sub who wants to be controlled and dominated doesn't mean I’m weak or afraid. It’s the opposite, actually. I want a Dom who can earn the right to dominate over me, and I will fucking crush anybody who isn’t worthy. My submission is not weakness, it is strength of the highest caliber.
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He’ll be exactly what you need: a man’s man—a Dom’s Dom who walks in and owns the room. He’ll worship every inch of your beautiful brown skin. He’ll look you in those deep brown eyes and tell you that he respects all of your limits, right before he disrespects you exactly the way you like it.”
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I crave a Dom who knows how to own me and chooses to do it every single day.
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They don't understand what it’s like submitting to someone you trust with your life, and allowing them to remove every stitch of stress from your flesh. Giving it all to a person who can handle it for you, massaging you with pain and pleasure until the world melts away.
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“It means I'm a woman who craves a man she can trust. When I say that, I don't mean in the typical sense. Everyone wants a partner they can trust to not cheat and to treat them with kindness and respect. That’s a given. What I want is something more than that. I want a man I can trust with my pain, both metaphorically and literally. I want someone who deserves my submission—someone who has earned it by proving themselves to be reliable, authentic, and authoritative. I want to kneel for someone who I know will always stand for me—someone willing to fight and die for me, remain peaceful and live ...more
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as their own. I need someone who doesn't judge me, but grows with me instead. Someone willing to explore ever-changing feelings and passions with me as we grow old together and become closer with the passing of time. I want to give myself to someone in every way possible and allow them to use me, hurt me, love me, break me—because I can always trust that they know exactly how to put me back together again. It requires someone who knows each and every single piece of me and how they all fit together, because I want to be shattered and broken apart so that I can forget the world, and then be ...more
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“It’s all of who I am,” he says. “Every bit and piece of me, from head to toe. The control I crave on a daily basis, the way I conduct my business, the way I speak to people, the way I look at people—I can't help any of it because being a Dom is who I am on the inside. I couldn't turn it off if I tried, and trust me, I've tried. “I want to be trusted to take the control I so strongly desire. I want it given to me, handed over like a delicate flower that will die if I don't care for it perfectly. I want to know someone so thoroughly that I’m just as knowledgeable on who they are as they ...more
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Men have complained about women not being sexual or kinky enough for their liking, but what they fail to realize is that a woman has to feel a certain level of connection before she can dive into the depths of her sexuality. It has to be earned, and she has to know that her partner can be trusted to protect her when she is at her most vulnerable.
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“Who the fuck do you think you're talking to?” he blares. “She is mine. Do you hear me? Mine! Don't you ever talk to my woman that way. Don't you ever disrespect her. I will break your goddamn neck!”