Doing it for you is not enough. It’s not a priority of theirs, or maybe there is something deeper going on, and they are not capable of changing. Or maybe they are just the way they are, and that’s okay. Their behavior is their answer and they have made it clear. Let Them. Not everyone wants to change. Sometimes in life, the most loving thing you can do is to stop fixing, start accepting, be more loving, and focus on what you can control. And what you can control is choosing to love someone as they are.