The Let Them Theory

by Mel Robbins

Your silence can’t be misquoted.

You have to be able to separate yourself from your emotions and the emotional reactions of others when you’re determining the right decision to make.

You can’t let your emotions drive your decisions, because they will often stop you from making the right decisions.

This is a hell of a lot more difficult than it seems. It can be devastating to m...

It can be absolutely heartbreaking to be honest with someone. It can feel like that decision might destroy you from the inside out, espe...

Here’s the truth: When you push someone, it only makes the person push back. You’re working

against the fundamental law of human nature. People need to feel in control of their decisions. You want people in your life to change, but pressuring them creates resistance to it.