The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About

by Mel Robbins

The reality is, no matter how hard you try or what you do, you cannot control other people. And yet, you live your life as if you can.

The problem isn’t you. The problem is the power you unknowingly give to other people.

They don’t change who you are or what you’ve accomplished or your right to make decisions that make you happy.

No matter how hard you try, you will never be able to control or change another person. The only person you are in control of is you. Your thoughts, your actions, your feelings.

no matter how much I tried to analyze the situation or how many ways I could try to control or fix it, nothing I did would change what had happened.