to remember this the next time you find yourself burning up with comparison or anger about what someone else is doing: I told Molly, “You should thank her!” No one should feel sorry for you. If you are jealous right now about someone else’s success, GOOD. I’m happy for you. Jealousy is an invitation from your future self. It is inviting you to look more closely at someone else—not to make you feel inferior, but to show you what is possible.

