why not let her think she was in charge.
BECUZ, that ALWAYS leads to that selfminded person to believe that to be the ALL Truth and will then refuse to give ground or compromise in the future WHEN not if theyre about to make a rash illogical or potentially fatal decision for a GROUP rather than it effecting juzst their own soon to be injured self interest
but most likely result in the damaging of others in the process NEEDLESSLY.
THAT'S 'why'.
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