There are the Joan Claytons of the world—women like Justice who color-code their linens and believe in soulmates. I never felt an itch to attach forever to a partner. I’m with the Toni Childs of the world—those who try you on for size before swapping you out with their outfits. Relationships slow you down and expose you to wounds. She tried the “I do,” and look what happened. I’ve seen a loveless marriage up close. Now, I’m witnessing the aftermath of a broken love story with my best friend. I’ll pass.