HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT ME? Now this is not to be confused with what do you “think” about me—“think” and “feel” are two wholly different things. And if a man cannot tell you how he feels about you after a month of dating, it’s because he doesn’t feel anything for you—he just wants something. Ask a man how he feels about you, and he’s going to get confused and nervous: “I told you before—I think you’re . . .” he begins.