Send each other naughty e-mails, so he can be sure that when he does get it, it’s going to be good. (And you can make sure he’s literate while you’re at it.) 15. Read a passage out of each other’s favorite books. 16. Have a movie night in which you both bring your favorite DVDs. 17. Go to a record store and listen to each other’s favorite artists. 18. Challenge each other to do something silly, like build a sandcastle at the beach or a game of jacks or marbles. 19. Hit up a comedy show; you can learn a lot about a person by what they find funny and what they think is offensive.