Have a few “firsts” together—go horseback riding together, or hit up a batting cage, or fall all over each other at the ice skating rink. 9. Volunteer together—help out at a local soup kitchen or read books to kids at a local foster home; you can tell a lot about a man who’s willing to help others. 10. Rent a convertible and get lost cruising in your city; you’ll have plenty of time to talk on a long drive. 11. Find a quiet place where you can watch the sunset together. 12. Play a board game. 13. Go for a long walk under a starlit sky.